Outreach Agendas
Love
Love Thy Enemy CROWDBREAKER
TOE FENCING: Set to music this looks like a new kind of dance. All the players pair off, lock hands and try to tap the top of one of their partner's feet with their own foot. In other words, one player tries to stomp the other player's foot with their hands clasped together. Players are also trying to keep from having their feet stepped on. When a player has had his/her foot tapped three times, he/she is out of the game. Winners match up with new partners. Continue until there is a single winner or time runs out.
DISCUSSION STARTER: Elephant Man: Many good clips in this film. Check out the one where John Merrick (the Elephant Man) is walking in the train station when a boy starts making fun of him. Then two more boys join in and then there is a bunch of people surrounding him. The Elephant Man finally yells the famous line in the film, "I am not an animal. I am a human being." You can stop the clip and tell the history of John Merrick, a kind, caring, and loving man.
Fast-forward the tape a little to the scene where John Merrick says, "My life is full. Because I am loved."
DISCUSSION QUESTIONS:
- When is it easy to love other people?
- What makes it hard to love other people? (They're different, smelly, a girl or a guy, unfriendly, etc)
- What does it feel like to love?
- What does it feel like to be loved?
- Is it best to tell a person you love them or to show them you love them? Why or Why not?
- How can you show someone that you love them.
- Think of someone that you think you should show love to this week. Now, think of how you could show this person love. Share what you’re going to do, and, if you want, who.
WRAP UP
I would like to share again our verse for the month. Matthew 22:37-39, "You must love the Lord your God with all your heart, all your soul, and all your mind. This is the first & greatest commandment. A second is equally important. 'Love your neighbor as yourself.'
I know it is hard to love other people, but I do realize that if we are honest with ourselves, we do love ourselves. Jesus is simply saying, "Love others as you love yourself." Some people live by the motto-do onto others, before they do it to you. God's word says, "Do onto others as you would have them do unto you" (Matthew 7:12).
(This is a great time for you to share a personal story about a time in your life that you found it hard to love another person. Talk about Jesus' story of loving people who didn't love him-Romans 5:8- "God demonstrated His love for us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us and gave himself for us.") .
Love is not just a word, it is an action. You must decide first that you are going to love; then you must decide how you are going to show love to others. Sometimes it means being honest when you'd rather lie; admitting doubt when you'd rather pretend you are certain; standing there when you'd rather run away or talking it out when you'd rather pout.
The Bible teaches quite a bit about love. My favorite part is found in I Corinthians 13: 4-8, it says - "Love is very patient and kind, it is not jealous or boastful; it is not arrogant or rude. Love does not insist on its own way, it is not irritable or resentful. Love does not rejoice at wrong, but rejoices in right. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, and endures all things. Love never ends."
I want to close by asking you to close your eyes and think of that person you thought of earlier that you are going to show love to this week. Now pray and ask God to help you show love to this person this week.
Let's pray.
Added by Sheryl Taylor
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