Honesty
Truth, To Tell or Not to Tell
Main Point:
It’s wonderful to be believed by
people!
Supplies:
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Shoebox with roll of ToiletPaper in
it
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Two Napkins
Kids Arrive/Mingle
Time:
-
make
them feel welcome
-
learn names and
interests
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Give
every new person a registration form
-
hang
out!
Bring it together:
“Hey, glad to see you all here.
Welcome to ???????? (youth group/outreach
name)
Before we
get started, I’ve got a quick challenge for the first two people up
here!
Gag a
Napkin: Each person opens up a paper napkin and places a corner of it on
his or her tongue. Then have a race to see who gets the complete napkin in their
mouth first.
Games:
Sticks and Tires
(Toothpicks and life savers):
This is a simple game with any number of evenly divided
teams, or, with a small group just put the whole group in a circle! Everyone
gets a toothpick and places it in their mouth. Get the teams in some sort of
single file line, row or circle. Start the front or beginning person with a
Lifesaver candy on their toothpick. They must pass the life saver from their
toothpick to their neighbors toothpick without any hands. First team to pass it
all the way down or around is the winner.
The Lying Salesmen:
Choose a student that
is really creative, quick, or has a good up-front presence.
Have a staff member take them out of the room
and explain to them that they are going to try to persuade the audience to buy
an item in a shoe-box. The hard part is
. . . the “salesman” doesn’t know what’s in the shoe-box, and he or she just has
to improvise, telling the audience all the benefits and reasons they should own
one of these items.
While the staff member
is explaining this to the salesman outside the room, show the audience what’s in
the box- A ROLL OF TOILET PAPER- and tell them to pay attention to the person’s
sales pitch.
The results are very
funny. Salesmen often talk about how
often you can use it, with friends and family, etc.
For an added laugh- open it up for
questions. Ask “How many times can you
use it?” “Where can you use it?”
etc.
To Tell the Truth:
Like the old 70's TV
game show. Pre-arrange four contestants for this game. Have them share a
funny/interesting story that happened to them when they were young that they can
say in one sentence. (e.g. My name is Billy and when I was 5, I was walking with
my mom and a big guy ran by and grabbed my mom's purse!) If that is the story
that sounds the best have all 4 contestants use their real name and say the same
story. (e.g. My name is Teresa and when I was 5, I was walking with my mom and a
big guy ran by and grabbed my mom's purse!) All contestants will tell the
audience the exact same thing as if it is their story- but only one of them is
telling the truth. Open up the audience to question individual contestants (like
an Oprah show) and three of the contestants will have to lie through their
teeth. Then have the audience vote who this really happened to. Then have the
real person step forward. Great fun!
Small Groups:
Small Group Intro:
Play 2 truths and a lie- Everyone
tells two true facts about themselves and one lie.
Everyone else take a vote on which is the
lie
Small Group
Questions:
1.
Name a lie you told once; was there
consequences?
2.
If there aren’t consequences, do you
lie? 3. Do you like it when friends
lie to you? What can you do about
it? 4. Do you think you should lie?
(What? You can, but your friends
can’t?) 5.
If you knew you could correct a personal
integrity problem . . . would you?
Wrap
Up:
There are many different wrap ups
you can do- I prefer to do a personal story where I lied, cheated, or was
dishonest, and it came back to bite me.
Passages to examine or
expand on:
John 13:37-38 (Don't make rash
promises.) Genesis
29:28-30-Keeping your end of a bargain
Joshua 7:7-12-Be honest in your
prayers Psalm
24:1-6-Only honest people may stand before the Lord
Romans 12:3-Don't think too highly
of yourself 1
Thessalonians 2:5 (Don't use flattery.)
James 5:12 (Don't
exaggerate.)
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