Movie Clip Discussions
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Letters to God
(Possibility Pictures, 2010)
Main Point of Discussion:
It’s an amazing thing to point others to God—especially when “others” are your enemies.
The Movie Clip:
“God is truth. And it’s your job, Tyler, to point them toward him. And if they turn to him, they find the truth. Wouldn’t that be a wonderful victory?”
Letters to God
is a movie about an eight-year-old boy’s pain and unexpected triumphs in the face of brain cancer. One of the ways Tyler Doherty deals with his affliction is writing daily letters to God and mailing them. (The letters become an inspiration to a postal worker who’s going through his own struggles.) Tyler is also surrounded by a loving family and community, which includes his spunky friend, Samantha, and her cantankerous-but-wise grandfather, Cornelius Perryfield.
The clip we’re using for this particular discussion features Mr. Perryfield doing his best to cheer up Tyler, who’s been down about feeling sick—as well being teased and mistreated by one particular peer. Tyler’s sitting on a couch with Samantha (who’s donned a head scarf in solidarity with Tyler) when Mr. Perryfield waltzes into the room, disguised as his whimsical alter ego, and gets the kids to laugh. He then declares Tyler “God’s warrior” and proceeds to reveal some important truths to the cancer-stricken child.
Introducing the Clip:
Today I want to show you a clip from the movie,
Letters to God. It’s about an eight-year-old boy struggling with brain cancer. One of the ways Tyler Doherty deals with his illness is writing daily letters to God and mailing them. (The letters become an inspiration to a postal worker who’s going through his own struggles.) Tyler is also surrounded by a loving family and community, which includes his spunky friend, Samantha, and her grandfather, Cornelius Perryfield. The clip we’re using features Mr. Perryfield doing his best to cheer up Tyler, who’s been down about feeling sick and being teased and mistreated by a mean kid. Tyler’s sitting on a couch with Samantha (who’s wearing a head scarf like Tyler so he doesn’t feel different) when Mr. Perryfield waltzes into the room, disguised as his foreign alter ego, and gets the kids to laugh. He then declares Tyler “God’s warrior” and reveals some important truths to him. Let’s take a look at this scene:
You'll need to rent the movie Letters To God
at your local video rental store and cue it up to the following scene.
In this scene Mr. Perryfield turns Tyler’s illness around—at least the part of it Tyler can control. In other words, Tyler doesn’t have the power to make his cancer go away, but he does have the power to react to it (and to others around him) in a God-honoring way. In fact, as Mr. Perryfield states, Tyler can choose to use his illness to point others to God—even those who are mean to him.
Divide into Small Groups:
Let’s go ahead and split up into our discussion groups, and then afterward we’ll come back together for a final word.
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- AROUND THE CIRCLE: Before we begin, share with everyone your name and (if you’re comfortable) the name of someone close to you who’s had a major illness, like cancer.
- ASK A FEW: In the scene we just watched, Mr. Perryfield calls Tyler “God’s warrior.” But he’s only eight years old and is weakened by a serious illness! So how can Tyler suddenly storm around his neighborhood like a battle-hardened fighting machine?
- ASK A FEW: In the clip, Mr. Perryfield tells Tyler that a possible reason others make fun of him is that his courage in the face of his illness makes them take a look at their own lives (and presumably they don’t like what they see, so they take it out on Tyler). Do you agree that’s a possible reason for others mistreating him? Why or why not?
- ASK A FEW: Have you ever been mistreated or teased because of the goodness in you or godly behavior? If so, how did it feel? How, if at all, was it resolved?
- ASK A FEW: Have you ever witnessed someone in a weakened state like Tyler being mistreated? What happened? How did you react? Given the chance to relive the experience, would you react the same way or differently? Why?
- ASK A FEW: Have you ever felt empowered by God to be good to your enemies? If so, tell us what happened.
- ASK A FEW: In the clip, Mr. Perryfield tells Tyler that it’s his “job” to point others to God. A lot of times God’s expectations of his followers are hard to live up to. Sometimes we don’t feel like being obedient. Do you think it’s better to obey cheerfully than in frustration? Or does it matter at all to God how we feel as we carry out his will?
Read the following passage:
ASK SOMEONE: According to the first verse in the passage (24), how many people must the Lord’s servant be kind to? (leader—the answer you’re looking for: Every person)
ASK SOMEONE: According to the next verse (25), in what way are we—as God’s servants—supposed to respond to those who oppose us? (leader—the answer you’re looking for: With gentle instruction) And what good could that possibly do? (leader—the answer you’re looking for: It leaves the door open for God to grant them repentance which will lead to a knowledge of the truth)
ASK SOMEONE: According to the last verse (26), what happens to those who repent and become aware of the truth? (leader—the answer you’re looking for: They come to their senses and escape the trap of the devil who had taken them captive to do his will)
ASK A FEW: “Come to their senses” is a strong statement. It’s like saying that those who’re opposing us because of our faith are thinking irrationally. Can you describe the demeanor of those who’ve quarreled with you or opposed you or were mean to you because of your faith? Were they like the verse describes?
ASK A FEW: Being in the devil’s “trap” is also a strong way of describing your enemies’ condition. As you think back on your experiences with opposition, is that how you remember those who were against you? Why or why not?
ASK A FEW: Does this passage help you feel more compassion toward your enemies? Is it important to feel compassion toward your enemies in order to be compassionate toward them? Why or why not?
AROUND THE CIRCLE: What can you do this week to show love and gentleness toward those who oppose you or dislike you?
2 Timothy 2:24-26 (NIV)
And the Lord’s servant must not quarrel; instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in the hope that God will grant them repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and that they will come to their senses and escape from the trap of the devil, who has taken them captive to do his will.
Tonight we’ve been looking at the biblical command to treat those who oppose us because of our faith with love and gentleness and patience. Not an easy task! It’s natural to want to lash out at those who hurt our feelings or tease us or mistreat us. But God has a crazy plan—and it’s not about defeating your enemies. Instead, when you love them even when they mistreat you, it leaves the door open for them to wonder WHY you’re loving them…and when they realize it’s because of how much God loves you, that’s going to get them thinking, big time. It may even lead them to want that kind of love in their own lives—and eventually toward repentance and the knowledge of the truth. Isn’t that incredible? And all because you were humble enough to swallow your pride and love those who didn’t love you.
But like we said—not an easy task. If that’s how you’re feeling today, don’t sweat it. You’re reluctance to love your enemies is a very common, natural feeling. But as you know, God isn’t common or natural—God is altogether uncommon and unnatural. That’s why Jesus’ commands are so radical—they go against so many of our interior motives and drives. But that’s why he’s living inside us—to help us do battle against our old natures every day and become the radical servant that he was (and still is).
So as we get ready to bow our heads and pray, I want you to acknowledge to God exactly how you feel at this moment—warts and all. Don’t be bashful…God already knows how you feel. He won’t be surprised. Then, if you’re feeling anger toward your enemies, ask God to change your heart and help you carry out his commands as outlined in this passage. And believe it: God wants this to happen because it will mean that more people will come to him. And like Tyler in the video clip, you, too, can be one of God’s warriors, leading others to Christ simply by demonstrating humility, grace, love, and gentleness.
Close in Prayer
Written by David Urbanski