Hip Hop, Where "Thug" Must Be on Your Resume


"I've been shot seven times!"

"I did hard time!"

And these are... good things? Maybe not, but they always seem to capture the attention of today's generation. Maybe that's why recent Hip Hop star Akon lied about his background, adding a little bit more "thug" to his resume than was actually there.

Atlanta Journal - Constitution's Cynthia Tucker shares an enlightening perspective about this thug culture:

You've heard of resume inflation? You've heard of people who lie about having Ph.D.s or Ivy League pedigrees in order to get ahead?

The world of thug culture has its own perverse equivalent, in which middle-class men with minor legal transgressions exaggerate their bad behavior, claiming to be hard-core degenerates to impress youngsters looking for outlaw role models. In this destructive environment, the more violent and predatory you are, the more heroic you seem.

That helps to explain why a metro Atlanta hip-hop star known as Akon wove a tall tale of malevolence and criminality, claiming to have spent three years in prison for running a "notorious car theft operation," a story he's been telling for years. In fact, he has apparently never served hard prison time. The Smoking Gun Web site recently exposed Akon as a thug wannabe, a "James Frey with ... an American Music Award."

American popular culture has always had a tendency to romanticize hoodlums, whether Al Capone, Bonnie and Clyde or Tony Soprano. But the hip-hop world's celebration of savage violence, educational failure and misogyny has been one of the worst influences on American youth, especially black youth, in decades. If you want to ruin a nation, a society or an ethnic group, persuade its members that the highest form of achievement is committing crimes.

This is a huge mistake for Akon. To today's generation, no insult could be worse than "phony." Authenticity is huge today. Kids don't care if you're a thug or in rehab. Those things are fine... as long as you "keep it real."

Hmmmmmm.

(Thanks to Youth Culture Window guru David for this article)

Nickelodeon's "Zoey" beats NBA Playoffs


Ever wonder what tweens are watching?

The pregnant Jamie Lynn Spears' show "Zoey 101" drew huge numbers last Friday night for its serier final, beating everything else on cable last week, including NBA playoff coverage.

Media Life Magazine reports:

“Zoey” drew an average 5.1 million total viewers for the hour-long finale last Friday, May 2, at 8 p.m. Another half-hour rerun that followed averaged 5.05 million, making them the two most-watched shows on cable last week, well ahead of NBA playoff coverage and the first new episode of “Hannah Montana” since Miley Cyrus’ controversial Vanity Fair pictures were released...

And if you think controversy doesn't attract attention...

The finale was nowhere near the 7.3 million total viewers who watched “Zoey’s” third-season finale in January, shortly after the 16-year-old announced she was pregnant. The show has regularly finished No. 1 among tweens this season.

Hmmmmm.

Interactive Sermons Via Cell Phone


This is a great idea for youth workers. I received an email with this submission to our Openers page recently and thought it was pretty creative, especially in line with our cell phone discussion we had in late March.

Opener Idea: Text-a-Friend

Description: Start your message by saying "if you have a cell phone, please turn it on silent mode" then proceed to say "I want you to text two people in your address book this question " ...whatever pertains to your topic. How does prayer work? etc. then continue your talk for a few minutes then ask who has a response. build off of their responses. This make for a great illustration for any topic. - Jason Meredith

Thanks Jason. Great idea. I love incorporating current culture and modern technology to our ministry.

I can totally picture talking with kids about a topic like evangelism and then asking them, "What do your friends think of God or the church? Text them right now and ask them, 'Would you go to church if I someone invited you? Why or why not?'" What a great way to poll current attitudes and feelings of those just one degree of separation from your youth group.

This makes me think of the one suggestion we heard in a comment in that "Cell Phone Use at Youth Group" blog. Kenneth commented the following: 

i don't understand what the big deal is about cell phones. i've been yp at a church for a couple years now, and the first i did was to change the "no cell phone" rule to "have your cell phone rule." are the phones really a distraction to you or are they a hit on your pride because you can't keep their attention?

unless the phone is making noise every time they get a text or call, i don't worry about it. can you see the head pastor calling out a member in the main service every time a man or woman pulls out their phone?

as far as trips, if a kid would rather talk or text on his phone at a retreat or camp than listen to me, i let him. when jesus was teaching, i can't see him always pulling judas back in to listen to him even though judas was more interested in counting the money outside the meeting.

but for those who need an idea, here's one that i got from a pastor in washington that works quite well. i have the kids text me any questions that pop into their minds while i teach. when i'm done teaching, i read the questions aloud and answer them. i usually leave around five minutes to answer the texts.

you do have the occasional "why are you wearing that shirt tonight?" or "why does poop stink?", but overall it's a very productive addition to the lesson. most of the students listen more closely because they want something i say to spark their interest so they can text me a question. this is a great opportunity to enter their world with the message and not make them stay in ours. it also allows me to answer their questions about my lesson as soon as i speak it. how many times have we prayed for a response from our kids? i've found this to be it. after all, as yp's, aren't we all about being as relevant as today's paper?

you'd be surprised at how this catches on and the texts start pouring in over the weeks. just remember to put your phone on silent while you teach, or else you'll have to confiscate your own phone. lol

Kenneth was pretty bold with this comment in a sea of comments instructing us to "collect" cell phones at the door or confiscate them. But more importantly... I love his idea of getting feedback or questions about your talk right then and there. Fantastic idea.

Thanks Jason and Kenneth for these ideas... good food for thought.

 

Douglas Gresham Stepson of C.S. Lewis


Next week I get a quick chance to interview Douglas Gresham, the stepson of C.S. Lewis, also the Co-Producer of the upcoming Narnia film Prince Caspian.

I'm reading every interview ever done on the guy... stumbled across this video on YouTube. Pretty cool. (love his voice!)

 

I'm diving into his new book Jack's Life: The Life Story of C.S. Lewis. Good stuff. I've already heard some incredible stories...

And yes, you'll catch our interview with him in an upcoming podcast.

Barbie Too Slutty for Iran


Wow... I don't know if I totally disagree with this.

The Iranian vice president is speaking out against Barbie, computer games, and movies.

In this Times Online article it's evident that Barbie and other western toys are not welcome:

Barbie dolls and other western toys will lead to "destructive and cultural consequences" for Iran, the country's leading prosecutor wrote in a letter to the Iranian vice-president, published in the Mardom Salari newspaper. "The appearance of personalities such as Barbie, Batman, Spiderman and Harry Potter and ... computer games and movies are all a danger "  A toy seller Masoumeh Rahimi adds that Barbie in particular  is "foreign to Iran's culture" ,  wanton, and " more harmful than an American missile".  

Hmmmm. I'm not sure what he's afraid of in Batman and Spiderman. Maybe those spandex suits are just too revealing. :) But I think there's a kernal of truth in this guy's worries when you take a look at some of the toys and games our culture is pimping out to our kids. It would be hard for us to deny some of the "destructive and cultural consequences" we are seeing from the media.

But I think this guy is taking the extreme position. It's all evil!

The other extreme is embraced by much of our culture. We should let our kids be free to choose what is right for them. 

I have to admit... I don't like either extreme. I guess that's where good parenting is going to have to just kick in.

Thoughts?