||Jonathan's Resource Ezine
Weekly Resources, Ideas and Articles from The Source for Youth Ministry
Tuesday, November 30, 2004
If you aren't a subscriber of this EZINE and would like to subscribe - it's free -
just pop on www.TheSource4YM.com and sign
up in the upper right hand corner.
Featured Article: 5 Tips to Make Your "MOVIE NIGHT" Flop!
By Jonathan McKee
November 30, 2004
Do you remember years ago when "Jurassic Park" came out on video? I'll never forget it.
Because that's when my idea for a movie night FLOPPED BIG TIME!!!
Everyone was talking about the release of the huge blockbuster film. So my friend and I got the
big screen ready, complete with a killer sound system. The room literally shook when the T-Rex
stomped around the Explorer. It was incredible. You've never seen anything so great. It was
the best ... but kids just wanted to go outside and "hang out."
What? But we've got "Jurassic Park?"
Nope. They wanted to hang out by a brick wall outside the room.
Maybe you can relate. You plan a great event, everything seems fool-proof, but they still opt
for hanging out in an alley rather than what you've got. It's like giving your kid a brand new
$100 gift for Christmas and he plays with the box!
We've all had it happen to us. And when it comes to movie nights, the potential for "flop-factor"
is even greater.
So if you're going to mess up, go ahead and MESS UP GOOD!
HERE'S 5 TIPS TO MAKE YOUR MOVIE NIGHT REALLY FLOP!
1st WAY TO MAKE YOUR MOVIE NIGHT FLOP: Don't provide an area to just "hang out."
That's right. If you haven't learned it by now, listen up. Kids love to just "hang out." One of
the biggest reasons kids even attend youth group is to just "kick it" with their friends.
(CLICK HERE FOR AN ARTICLE
ON THAT VERY SUBJECT) If we don't provide it, then they'll find it on their own.
If you do a movie night, plan more than just the movie. Have a separate area where kids can
just "hang out." Have food, have dominos, cards or other board games. Use a night like this
to "hang" with kids and get to know them. Despite how good the film is, many will just want to
"hang out" somewhere else.
2nd WAY TO MAKE YOUR MOVIE NIGHT FLOP: Try to superimpose a Biblical lesson to everything
that hits the screen.
Yes, kids respond to media. Yes, I like to use video clips as discussion starters. Yes, movies
can be a great teaching tool. But, NO, you don't have to try to retro-fit a lesson to everything
you show. You can show a movie for the simple purpose of "having fun."
Haven't you ever just had a pizza night? Did you feel like you needed to give a lesson on the
feeding of the 5,000? Guess what: there is such a thing as just having fun. You don't need a
Bible verse for everything you do. It's okay to provide some events for the purpose of showing
kids a good time. Chalk it up as marketing-if kids like it, maybe they'll keep coming.
3rd WAY TO MAKE YOUR MOVIE NIGHT FLOP: Show a BORING film with a REALLY GOOD LESSON!
If you haven't figured it out by now, "Chariots of Fire" is not a good movie for movie night
... unless it's an all-nighter and you really want to get kids to fall asleep. Yes, the
powerful and true story of Eric blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah blah ...
save it. Kids think that movie sucks! Show it to a group of hard kids and you might get
Again, consider your purpose of the evening. If you want to teach a lesson some other night,
then show a QUICK clip that stimulates discussion. Make sure that it's not a clip that
stimulates SLEEP! If you want a movie night, scrap the discussion and just have some fun! It's
not a sin.
4th WAY TO MAKE YOUR MOVIE NIGHT FLOP: Don't screen the film!
I'll never forget speaking at an all-nighter where the leader planned on bringing the entire
group to the midnight showing of the movie "Blue Crush." I hadn't seen the film and asked her
if she had. She said, "No, but the kids really want to see it."
(CLICK HERE FOR
SCREENIT.COM'S REVIEW OF THAT FILM) I felt like asking her, "If the kids told you that
they wanted to see American Pie, would you have brought them to that?!!!" Needless to say,
she had a bunch of parent complaints afterwards.
It just doesn't make sense to try to talk to students about waiting for sex until marriage, and
then show them "sheer entertainment" that preaches the opposite. Screen movies before you watch
them. Or bare minimum-jump on www.Screenit.com
(and scroll down to the bottom and click "no thanks" to use the free version) and review its
5th WAY TO MAKE YOUR MOVIE NIGHT FLOP: Turn out the lights!
I've learned many lessons in youth ministry. One would be to not leave two kids unattended in a
janitor closet. Another would be, don't trust a boy and a girl when they are quiet in the back
seat of a 15 passenger van. The same is true with movie nights. Don't allow the kids to bring
sleeping bags and then shut off the lights for 2 hours of "The Rookie." Dennis Quaid won't be
the only one hitting 3rd base that night!
Dim the lights near the screen. Then light half the room-an area with snacks and drinks. Don't
set your kids up for failure by killing the lights.
LEARN MORE "HOW TO's"
AND "HOW NOT TO'S"
ON JONATHAN'S "HOW DO I ...?" PAGE
Jonathan McKee is president of TheSourceForYouthMinistry.com
and author of the new book "Do They Run When They See You Coming? Reaching Out to Unchurched
(CLICK HERE FOR THE BOOK) Jonathan
speaks and trains across the country
and provides free online resources, training, & ideas for youth workers at
Something You Can Use: Napoleon Dynamite Night
Now that you know how to keep your "Movie Night" from flopping (read above if you missed it),
go ahead and try out your new "event planning" knowledge with a great event opportunity-
Napoleon Dynamite Night!
"Napoleon Dynamite" comes to video and DVD during Christmas break, on Tuesday, December 21st.
What a perfect night for Napoleon Dynamite Night!
For those of you who haven't seen it, the film "Napoleon Dynamite" is taking America by storm.
This low budget film was released in June, and it has paid for itself every single weekend since
it was released. Teenagers still go to the theatres to see it-some up to 20 times.
The film's reputation has exploded (pardon the pun.) The theatres re-released a second version
with an extra scene, and Napoleon even guest starred on the Teen Choice awards, challenging
Nicole Richie to a game of tetherball.
The film is hard to describe. For lack of a better description, it's the story of a geeky kid
named Napoleon Dynamite who decides to help his new friend win the class presidency in their
small town high school. His family life consists of a even geekier brother who "chats online
with babes all day" and his uncle who wishes he could go back to high school and play football
again. (CLICK HERE FOR
MY MORE DETAILED REVIEW OF THE FILM)
The film is clean, weird ... and kids love it.
So plan a Napoleon Dynamite Night event during Christmas break. Use the tips from the
article above to make the event a "blast!" (There I go again!) Use this event as an excuse to
put a "student event-planning team" together to help you plan the event. They'll come up
with better ideas than we could. Use some of these ideas to jumpstart their thoughts:
The event could be a great outreach event to bring out some new kids. Use this event to "just
have fun" and invite kids back to your youth group.
- Give prizes for the best Napoleon Dynamite costume
- Serve "tater tots"
- Have the Napoleon Dynamite dance contest
- Show the extra features on the DVD: deleted scenes, the making of, etc.
FIND MORE CRAZY EVENT IDEAS ON OUR
"EVENT IDEAS" PAGE
AND FIND 52 NEW "OUTREACH EVENT IDEAS" LIKE
THIS ONE ON THE "2005 OUTREACH RESOURCE CD"
FREE WITH THE PURCHASE OF
JONATHAN'S NEW BOOK
Your Last Chance for the FREE 2005 Outreach Resource CD: Jonathan's Book is just one week from its release and we're giving away a CD with all pre-orders!
This week is the last week you can pre-order Jonathan's new book!
Why do you care?
Good question: because we're giving away the FREE 2005 Outreach CD to anyone who pre-orders the book from us!
Now, we know that you can go down to your neighborhood Christian book store in December and
buy this book. That's why we're throwing something in for free, just to say "Thanks for
buying it from us!"
CLICK HERE FOR MORE ABOUT THIS
BOOK AND CD
This is the book that everyone's talking about.
Saddleback's Kurt Johnston says it best:
"Most youth workers feel like we just aren't reaching enough students for Christ-at least
that's how I feel. In this book, Jonathan took me on a journey that was both convicting and
encouraging at the same time! Instead of a few "happy hops to Heaven," Jonathan provides a
holistic approach to reaching this generation of un-churched students."
Recommended by Mark Oestreicher, Bo Boshers, Jim
Burns, Walt Mueller, Chap Clark, Wayne Rice, and more!
CLICK HERE TO PRE-ORDER THIS BOOK
AND GET THE FREE CD
Jonathan's Resource Ezine from The Source
Delivered free via e-mail to subscribers each week. We encourage you to distribute this
newsletter freely and ask only that you not change its contents.
HAVE YOU MISSED PAST "EZINE" ARTICLES?
CLICK HERE FOR JONATHAN'S "EZINE" ARCHIVES
And for more FREE resources and ideas ... go to THE SOURCE
Copyright ?2004 The Source for Youth Ministry
All rights reserved.