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 Tuesday, June 3, 2008

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Youth Culture Window: No Limits: A Glimpse of Pop Culture through the Lens of the MTV Movie Awards

by Jonathan McKee

2008 Movie Awards I love movies... and I love good TV. But the MTV Movie Awards always leaves a bitter taste in my mouth.

First, understand how powerful an influence MTV has on our kids. It's amazing if you think about it. MTV pre-dates cell phones, iPods, Xbox and the internet. MTV filled homes across the world while MySpace creator Tom was still in diapers. Jordon Sparks and Chris Brown had yet to sing together... actually, they weren't even born when MTV already "owned" a young generation. That generation has already grown up and is raising kids of their own. These kids now watch the same channel their parents watched, just with less videos, more reality shows, and much more sexual references per hour.

As we rolled into the new millennium, when everyone had an email address, a cell phone number and a Starbucks addiction, MTV was still named the top choice for advertisers who wanted to reach teenagers.

Now, in 2008, MTV still "owns," although now they probably share the crown with Nick, American Idol, Facebook and iTunes. But on this past Sunday night, all eyes were on MTV for their annual MTV Movie Awards hosted by Michael Myers and featuring every celeb imaginable, from Will Smith to Juno's Ellen Page.

I've gotta be honest with you. I'm biased. I don't like MTV. As a parent, I struggle with a channel that gladly peddles smut to our kids to make a buck. Think about it for a second. If a man walked up to our kids in a grocery store and starting talking about the content that MTV doesn't hesitate sharing every day... most parents would be either calling security or smacking the individual. But what do we do? We reward this individual and give him free reign over our children. It's mind blowing.

So last night I sat down to try to stomach another year of what MTV had to offer. As a movie fan I normally would enjoy Michael Myers, Will Smith and Jack Black...but not this night. Not on this channel.

After the "gold carpet" pre-show with "role models" like Diddy, Paris Hilton, and the Pussy Cat Dolls, the show started with a creative introduction from Michael Myers that had a few chuckling moments.

The show went downhill from there. I'll highlight the good and bad for you quickly, share some of the trends I noticed this year, and finally make two suggestions of how we can respond as parents and youth workers.

The Good Part of the Show:
  • I always enjoy seeing Chris Brown dance-a very talented young man.

  • It was fun to hear Coldplay's new song performed live.

  • And I was truly excited this year when all the nominees for their annual "Best Kiss" award were actually a kiss between a guy and a girl!

Well, that wraps up the good. Here's the bad.

The Bad Part of the Show:
  • Every year the show seems to award a bunch of movies that parents wouldn't really want their kids watching. Considering that MTV is the " top-rated network in the 12-24 demographic," it's discouraging that racy R-rated movies like Knocked Up, Superbad and Sex in the City were in the lineup.

  • The show featured a moment that is probably the most blatant televised promotion for smoking weed that I've ever seen. Seth Rogan and James Franco lit up a big fatty joint and smoked it live right in front of thousands of cheering fans.

  • This show is a gateway drug to other MTV shows. They consistently plugged other trashy MTV shows like The Real World and Tila Tequila where the commercial featured a lengthy shot of two girls passionately kissing. They also plugged new shows like House Bunny, where a playboy bunny moves into a sorority... oh... why even bother explaining. Sigh.

  • Almost every commercial break cut to a piece of Usher's "Let's Make Love in This Club" video.

  • Michael Myers, as funny as he is, never ceased to cross the line. Somehow, he seemed to twist every little introduction into something sexual. "Our next presenters did a movie together called The Foot Fist Way and surprisingly, it's not a celebrity sex tape." Other times he played creatively quirky characters including his sketch as an ex-porn star who now caters for movies. She (Myers) told us to be careful what we "put in our mouths."

  • At first I was excited because they brought Dana Carvey in as a guest to do a live "Wayne's World" sketch with Mike Myers. I was amazed with what they got away with on TV, joking about "pubes," porn film titles, and a whole little bit about proclaimed bi-sexual Tila Tequila reaching down the front of people's pants and being satisfied with whatever she finds down there (complete with hand gestures). It was embarrassingly graphic.

  • As a whole, the show was a giant infomercial. At times, it was hard to decipher between the show and advertisements. I wasn't alone in this observation.

  • MTV's commercials always bother me, but at the same time, I think MTV tips their hand with their advertisements. It's very clear what kind of audience they expect with their advertisements for new "unrated" movies and racy reality shows.

This Year's Trends
Every year I notice certain trends in pop culture programming. The 2008 MTV Movie Awards revealed plenty. But three trends seemed to float to the top...

CLICK HERE FOR THE THREE POP CULTURE TRENDS JONATHAN OBSERVED AND THE REST OF THIS ARTICLE

Or click below for Jonathan's Two Cents on last year's...
MTV 2007 Video Music Awards
MTV 2007 Movie Awards

Jonathan McKee is president of The Source for Youth Ministry and author of numerous youth ministry books like "Do They Run When They See You Coming?" and "Getting Students to Show Up." Jonathan studies youth culture and trends, speaking and training across the country and providing free online resources, training, & ideas for youth workers at www.TheSource4YM.com


Featured: Jonathan tackles student leadership in this brand new podcast episode where two high school students share amazing insight...

THE SOURCE PODCAST: Episode #16 (5/31/2008)

Listen to it now for free on iTunes! (CLICK HERE) Or, if you don't have iTunes already... jump on Apple's web page for a free download, then click on our podcast page.



In this episode, youth worker Andy Matzke joins Jonathan once again... this time with two of his student leaders. The four of them talk about: student leadership, youth culture today and the temptations that kids face, integrity, and finally the effect that mission trips and service projects can have on our kids.

Episode Highlights:
  • Jonathan and Andy are called fools by student leader Noelle!

  • In our Youth Culture Window section we ask the student leaders to share their two cents about "situational ethics" and the 98% of students that admit to cheating.

  • Noelle keeps it real, sharing her thoughts on why lying and cheating might be a greater temptation than "stealing."

  • Andy declares that Jonathan must treat him golfing before the next podcast!

  • Student leader Shea shares her thoughts on why our "good" church kids suffer the same moral failures as "unchurched kids."

  • Andy shares the SEVEN SINS OF MISSION TRIPS.

  • The girls share how some of Andy's strict training requirements and standards strengthened the kids as a community.

  • Andy provides some incredible "takeaway" from this podcast with amazing ideas for service projects and mission trips.

CLICK HERE FOR THIS PODCAST



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